Probably me, I almost said they could have the sleepover here

arty: Ian would kill me though.
The sad thing is my niece is a year older and has played with both of the girls separately while she has been visiting, they even had sleepovers. But she is such a different kid so playing all together would not work, she would probably be left out. We don't know what is wrong with her, she was adopted from China at 1 and has never been a bubbly, smiling, happy girl. She angers and pouts easily, has some speech problems and just can seem to socialize easy, when you try to bring things out of her she just wines a lot, all her sentences seemed dragged out, like mmmmmmmmmmmmmom i don't wannnnnnnnnnnnnnnnt to, why mmmmmmmmmmmmmmmom, you saaaaaaaaaaaaaaaid ask her a question and all you get are I dunno know, I don't care. As hard as I have tried, I never could have had a day like that with her. My sister has spent a ton of money on early intervention, testing, social skill classes, speech therapy, counseling, things like horseback riding lessons and nothing seems to bring her joy, very little smiles, it's very sad because as she gets older the kids notice her personality or lack of it more and now she is starting to loose the few friends she had. She is smart enough to realize that she's not popular or accepted but can't seem to understand how to keep it from happening.