Ok.. I got new tires. After alot of hours of reading, scanning and frying my brain. I decided to go with the BF Goodrich AT KOs. I had these on my Dakota before and have talked with plenty of people who have been happy with them. I got them in the 315/70/17 size. So they are not quite 35 inches nor 12.5 wide. They do still rub the inner well and control arm a lil on a full lock turn but its slight. Actually, in real world driving I havent even had to turn the wheel that much so it shouldnt be a problem. The first noticed aspect of these tires is the ride characteristics. I knew going to a taller sidewall would soften the ride a lil. But, what I didn't expect is that there is a lil sway when you initially start a lane shift or turn. Its just the sidewalls flexing a lil from the weight shifting. This makes sense considering I stayed with the factory rims. So I get a softer ride but the truck is not quite as tight in maneuvering. Its a tradeoff. The only thing to change this would be to go to a bigger rim, say 19 or 20 inches with less rubber sidewall. But if I want nimble handling, I'll take the Vette.
Thanks to Buck, Mitch, Brian and all the others for your help and opinions. I hope others can use this information to help them.