Thanks so much everyone, its been a long battle. Mom was tough as nails and let me say toughness & braveness have nothing to do with gender. Bruce, you and your family have been so supportive through this, thanks buddy. Mom died on the dec 23rd so I was a bit paralyzed on xmas eve. But I spent 3 hours on the phone with jayboat that night and that phone call meant a lot pal, thank you Jay. Mom I love you forever, see you again some day my friend.