As far as student loans. If the parents pay the loans thats one thing. On the other hand if you ask your kids to pay, that is an entire different matter. It is very difficult to ask a kid, who lives day to day, as they should, to pay back a loan for the next 10 to 20 years. just look at the pay back, someone will have to pay back a lot of money for a long time. Our kids have their entire lives to get into debt, ( boats boats boats ) let them start with a clean slate.
John going to slightly disagree with you on this I have and always will help my kids but they also have to work for what they want.Basically if he went to Harvard he would be looking at half.Like I told him watch your expenses the first few years out and get the loan paid off.No new cars, rent cheap get the loan paid off first.
He has his permit and I did not trade the Titan in when I bought the dually so he can drive that just pay for insurance.Maybe I am wrong but kids have to find there own way to a point.I think I am right though a few weeks ago he asked me when I was going to the bank to put money in his account he handed me 2k how many 16 year olds can walk around with 2k in there pocket and not spend it?