A real tragedy

[cuda]

Does this guy have any family that you can get contact info from?

No, I basically adopted him years ago. I used to take him to my family's house for "family night", when we all went to mom's for dinner. He has spent most of his youth in either a foster home, or reform school. His dad blew his brains out when Chuck was a kid, and his mom shot him. He hasn't had an easy life.

 

[MikeyFIN]

I'd never let a woman drive me to that.

It has crossed my mind recently but as I got fed up with the rollercoaster she was dealing me I just stopped to keep touch with her I started to think like you do and feel better day by day.
Plus my dearest daughter "daddys girl" forgave my wrongdoings Christmas eve and told me not to leave her alone.
I do understand those that have a gun close how easy it is to pull the trigger once you feel cornered and feel there´s no way out.

 

[MikeyFIN]

"When you think back on it" exactly. But at that time you aren't thinking back on it. You are in the middle of a mental Cat 5 hurricane. I'll never feel anything but compassion for people in that place. Whether they make it or not.

True that.

Hopefully ´Cuda you´ll find Chuck soon.

 

[DollaBill]

any updates Cuda?

 

[Indy]

"When you think back on it" exactly. But at that time you aren't thinking back on it. You are in the middle of a mental Cat 5 hurricane. I'll never feel anything but compassion for people in that place. Whether they make it or not.

Agreed

 

[getchasum111]

my best friend, and best man in my wedding did it.... totally unexpected, and off the wall.... over a woman who left him for no reason....

I sure understand that one

 

[getchasum111]

I have to chime in here.

When you are in that state of mind the LAST thing you can think about is everyone else. It's obviously gotten to the point of loss of control. Things are SERIOUSLY wrong mentally and you can't be held accountable for your actions. If youare/were coherent enough to understand how it affects everyone around you you wouldnt be sitting on a bed with a gun in your mouth.

I have to respectfully disagree with everyone who says it's such a selfish puzzy thing to do. It's much more complicated than that and I feel bad for people who lost others that way and harbor bad feeling toward them and didn't attend funerals etc. That person who did that was in a place that, obviously, you can't even imagine.

that is so true..one is not thinking rationally at that point...i get that one

 

[tommymonza]

Hi Chip.

Hope you are in a little better spirits now.

 

[getchasum111]

i'm going to move from here to Sanannah Ga. So now I can keep my mind busy with that and packing..I sure do miss her though...she took the truck so i don't know how im going to move the boat...and I need boat storage when I get there....and thanks for being there

 

[Buoy]

i'm going to move from here to Sanannah Ga. So now I can keep my mind busy with that and packing..I sure do miss her though...she took the truck so i don't know how im going to move the boat...and I need boat storage when I get there....and thanks for being there

Just get there. Work out the rest later.

 

[Ratickle]

If you need help, put something up on here. Maybe someones headed that way with a tow rig.

 

[tommymonza]

Yea I have decided to sell the house and make a big move also after suffering a horrible tragedy the last week and a half.All you can do is change the future, the past is gone.The move will keep me and my mind busy for the following months.

 

[DollaBill]

i'm going to move from here to Sanannah Ga. So now I can keep my mind busy with that and packing..I sure do miss her though...she took the truck so i don't know how im going to move the boat...and I need boat storage when I get there....and thanks for being there

I'm sure moving the boat can be arranged.

 

[DollaBill]

Yea I have decided to sell the house and make a big move also after suffering a horrible tragedy the last week and a half.All you can do is change the future, the past is gone.The move will keep me and my mind busy for the following months.

Whats up Tommy?

 

[tommymonza]

I don' know if i am up to it today Bill.

 

[DollaBill]

It's cool. Hang tough bro. I was just curious. We're here if you need us.

 

[tommymonza]

Thanks appreciate that.Its been a tough one.