Really, she's 30??? I thought she was a teenager.
If it makes her feel any better, let her know I found out last night because her name showed up in the newspaper that my 45 year old sister was busted for 12 counts of illegally filling perscription drugs (all this while she worked in a doctors office -- now I know why she doesn't work there anymore :boxing_smiley

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My sister will be getting a phone call from me in a few hours. She isn't going to like what I have to say.
But, I'm not going to lose any sleep over it. That's her life, just like your niece has her life and will do whatever she wants. You just have to let things go.